I’ve been all over the globe and I’ve met lots of different types of women, as you can imagine. Probably it’s not surprise to you to know that I look for the common things in women from every city and even country I go to. If you look at the cities of the U.S. – L.A., Phoenix, San Francisco, Chicago, Atlanta, Boston, Miami, New York…they all have their own flavor. But I’ve also been around the globe. I’ve been to Europe and Asia. Latin America is on the agenda this year. Let me tell you about the differences between cultures, and the similarities, and how to calibrate between both. But there are some definite universal requirements when it comes to success with women. First of all, you have to be aggressive, but at the same time, not overly sensual. Each woman has her own unique balance of sensual tension and emotional comfort that she requires. Women who require a lot of sensual tension will usually get turned off if you stop and get logical. She doesn’t want to think. She wants to play and get swept off her feet. Other women need to feel like they know you, you know them, and you accept them and truly like them as people. If you can align yourself with her worldview, while employing a more subtle sensual vibe than usual, she will respond POWEFULLY. I have a lot of students from foreign countries, and they all tend to want the All American girl: big breasts, blond hair, pretty face, tall, on the ‘thin’ side. These girls are tough for the average guy because EVERYONE like this type. But that actually makes it easy for a pickup artist. A PUA does things a little differently, but those little differences make all the difference. Let me breakdown a few things a PUA does differently, so that you can step up from the level of the Average Guy. 1. Don’t suck up First and foremost, do NOT approach a woman with the attitude that she’s better than you and that you don’t deserve her. You must do the opposite. Approach her with the attitude that YOU are the prize and she is LUCKY to meet you. 2. Don’t try to get hook-up Never try to make a woman sleep with you, or even pressure her to do ANYTHING. Instead, tease her with what you’ve got. Think of your body as a object of intimacy. Take her hand and put it on your bicep while you pick her up. Then as you set her down, take her hand off your arm, as if you were saying "ok that was your fun, now you must let go." Treat your body like the snack that she craves. 3. Don’t implicitly try to make her your GF This is mostly about how much time you spend with her. But if you are telling her stories about raising a family, or even talking about how she’s your dream girl or the only women for you, guess what… She knows your saying it just to sleep with her. Try something more real. Try becoming friends with the girl while at the same time using touch to generate some sensual tension. That’s what makes a friend a "friend with benefits." Call her what you want, but if there’s trust, respect, fun, and be in bed, she’s special to you. Don’t ever forget that, because when you get good at this stuff, it’s very easy to take advantage of women. And I do NOT condone that. Women love us and want to make us happy. They want to be happy in return – they want to feel appreciated and know that we really care too. All you have to do to give them that is be honest, be a genuinely good/ethical guy, and give her pleasure in intimate times. That’s enough to think about til next time… Copyright (c) 2009 Vin DiCarlo 相关的主题文章: